"If you truly want to help the soul of your neighbor, you should approach God first with all your heart. Ask him simply to fill you with charity, the greatest of all virtues; with it you can accomplish what you desire." (St. Vincent Ferrer) How is it that we miss the basics of daily living? We try to solve the problems of others from a human perspective. That is not our call. What we are called to do is to love the other person. Love opens the heart to change. Love frees the other to be fully other. Love helps the other person to see their true worth and identity as one loved by God. Is not that at the core of everyone's desires?